Jesus Christ! Why is it so hard to meet a right person?

ILoveCreampuffs wrote:

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ShiroStateira wrote: See sometimes people have to high standards that blind them. If you take those away, you'll meet a lot of good and fantastic people.

So ur saying to meet your soulmate, you have to throw away standards. Seems legit.

th3f4llen wrote:

ShiroStateira wrote: See sometimes people have to high standards that blind them. If you take those away, you'll meet a lot of good and fantastic people.

So ur saying to meet your soulmate, you have to throw away standards. Seems legit.

I'm saying to set the bar too high that it's impossible to reach. Get to know who they are, not who you want them to be because we never get what we want. Who are we to tell others how they should be "perfect" if we ourselves are far from perfection?

ShiroStateira wrote:

th3f4llen wrote:

ShiroStateira wrote: See sometimes people have to high standards that blind them. If you take those away, you'll meet a lot of good and fantastic people.

So ur saying to meet your soulmate, you have to throw away standards. Seems legit.

I'm saying to set the bar too high that it's impossible to reach. Get to know who they are, not who you want them to be because we never get what we want. Who are we to tell others how they should be "perfect" if we ourselves are far from perfection?

We get to know who they are, because we want to know if they're the person that we want them to be. If they're not, then it probably won't move any further than friends, unless you compromise. And shouldn't it be a natural mentality to strive for perfection?

If your standards are perfection... you'd better be darn near perfect yourself.

Is hard to meet a right person....hmm well cuss nobudy is perfect and cuss of distance ~

th3f4llen wrote:

ShiroStateira wrote:

th3f4llen wrote:

ShiroStateira wrote: See sometimes people have to high standards that blind them. If you take those away, you'll meet a lot of good and fantastic people.

So ur saying to meet your soulmate, you have to throw away standards. Seems legit.

I'm saying to set the bar too high that it's impossible to reach. Get to know who they are, not who you want them to be because we never get what we want. Who are we to tell others how they should be "perfect" if we ourselves are far from perfection?

We get to know who they are, because we want to know if they're the person that we want them to be. If they're not, then it probably won't move any further than friends, unless you compromise. And shouldn't it be a natural mentality to strive for perfection?

No such thing as perfection, only what we think is perfection. In America, Being insanely thin is one form of perfection in this society. Shall i go throw up a bit to strive for this perfection? Maybe get some plastic surgery and invest hundreds of dollars for makeup that will eventually kill my skin. shall i strive for this perfection? No, we are not perfect. We should strive to be the best of ourselves. We will make mistakes, we will not be perfect, but as long as we can try to learn to move forward and be the best we can, then that is enough. That, my dear friend, is what we should take into consideration when looking for "the one". They will not be the one to meet out standard based on a checklist, but they will be the one to try their best.

I know some people that have been looking for that "perfect match" for 50-60 years now. Unrealistic expectations = forever alone.

I generally think it's because people set the bar a bit too high. Either that, or that there are so many people just likes to play around, creating trusting issues for the ones that doesn't like to play around or be played. Before you know it, we'll be old and alone.

Nekky wrote: I generally think it's because people set the bar a bit too high. Either that, or that there are so many people just likes to play around, creating trusting issues for the ones that doesn't like to play around or be played. Before you know it, we'll be old and alone.

so true.