Jesus Christ! Why is it so hard to meet a right person?

We expect too much form people and most of the time they are not half of what we thought...
One thing I've learnt is not being shallow and see hoe every person really is... maybe one day O might fing my Mr. Right.
People say tha girls need to kiss loats of frogs before finding their prince... I guess one forg is enough to learn a lesson... I got mine... now I'm waiting for my prince.

Probably the same way I somehow seem to befriend or attract weird people, and many of those people I end up avoiding half the time...because they are questioningly weird

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well, I admit it....I am a little odd----but I am 100% sane and inhale 0 substances.

I would basically just take Marker's advice

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you have to figure out what about your appearance, attitude, etc is attracting them

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even just changing your clothing style a little bit says a lot!

Like wearing the latest trends and fashions that those people associate with, whatever it might be.

covering your head/shadowing your face seems to attract the more shady attention( hats, hoods), than openly wearing your hair as long as it's not long...

Also I think if you appear to be a funny person, they are rather less likely to think you are a serious person in most aspects

I seem to attract weird stalker types or d**ks who just f**k me around....a weed smoking hippy would at least make a change! XD

syrupp8 wrote: it meant if you're at a bus stop or queuing etc.

it reminds me of some people who told me that they did just that all the time.


to everybody here who reads this: how do u just know who is a "right" person or not? define the word for me pls, if u could. if u reflect a little, and be honest to yourself, how often in your life, this so "right" person didn't become someone not so "right" over time? is it your perception of the person changing over time or that person actually changed or both?

long time ago, i learned 1 thing from a chinese proverb, which translates into the only thing that doesn't change is the change itself. so welcome to an ever changing world.

DanielDYIm wrote: Jesus Christ! Why is it so hard to meet a right person?

I am a pretty normal, passionate and funny person. Everybody loves me.

I am not even greedy. All I want for a girl is to be sweet and honest.

But WHY should girls who are into me be always some kind of crazy, weed-smoking wild girls??

Goddamn it!

Be more assertive. Do your best to come up with witty things to say to keep the conversation going. I suggest going for the funny guy approach, strive after smiles.

I agree with that "everywhere" wrote ... our views and tastes change throughout our lives.
Because we have new experiences, meet people and learn many different things.
All this influences us and we tend to change ...
And I say from experience, because I changed my opinion many times.
And for me, there is no 'right person' so that those who demand never find ^ _ ^

because you used the lord's name in vain and all the girls here are good christian girls....not.

Funny guy approach can be easily mistaken for a creep trying too hard. Don't use it on total strangers.

Best way to meet new people is through existing friends. Next best is through a mutual activity.

captainsoap wrote: because you used the lord's name in vain and all the girls here are good christian girls....not.

-kicks the "not"-
rofl...but no. That's a really big turn off. You're not going to get a good girl without being a good guy.

MagicMarker wrote: Funny guy approach can be easily mistaken for a creep trying too hard. Don't use it on total strangers.

Best way to meet new people is through existing friends. Next best is through a mutual activity.

not really. a try hard creeper funny type in my opinion is very easy to distinguish from a general legit funny guy