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Does the friend zone exist?

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10 years 10 months ago #342030 by TeddyJerr
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Farhan Ismahin wrote: I'm glad I don't live in the United States....


How's it different where you are?

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10 years 10 months ago #342037 by Thesaurusrex
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TeddyJerr wrote:

Thesaurusrex wrote: Currently, I mostly keep up with Eatyourkimchi and David So and JustKiddingNews.

Wong Fu Productions is my end-all favorite though, just haven't been keeping up with them. I also like The Riedell Brothers and the Fu Brothers. Those two were actually both contestants on a pretty good who'll-be-the-next-youtube-star series that I liked.

These social experiment videos are fun to watch, but I don't really keep up with any one YouTuber who does them.


Cool! I will check out the Riedell Brothers, Eatyourkimchi, and Fu Brothers. I've been a David So, JustKiddingNews, and wong Fu fan for a while.


The Brothers Riedell (I always forget which order Brothers comes in) are actually friends with NigaHiga, and one of them is in the upcoming Wong Fu movie. They're really awesome.

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10 years 10 months ago #342049 by Wynn1206

Farhan Ismahin wrote: I'm glad I don't live in the United States....


I am, too.

Reality can be so much more interesting than make-believe

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10 years 10 months ago #342054 by TeddyJerr
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Thesaurusrex wrote:

TeddyJerr wrote:

Thesaurusrex wrote: Currently, I mostly keep up with Eatyourkimchi and David So and JustKiddingNews.

Wong Fu Productions is my end-all favorite though, just haven't been keeping up with them. I also like The Riedell Brothers and the Fu Brothers. Those two were actually both contestants on a pretty good who'll-be-the-next-youtube-star series that I liked.

These social experiment videos are fun to watch, but I don't really keep up with any one YouTuber who does them.


Cool! I will check out the Riedell Brothers, Eatyourkimchi, and Fu Brothers. I've been a David So, JustKiddingNews, and wong Fu fan for a while.


The Brothers Riedell (I always forget which order Brothers comes in) are actually friends with NigaHiga, and one of them is in the upcoming Wong Fu movie. They're really awesome.


That's cool!

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10 years 10 months ago #344924 by support
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Wynn1206 wrote:

Farhan Ismahin wrote: I'm glad I don't live in the United States....


I am, too.


i am glad i have "friends" on this site... i think :whistle:

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10 years 10 months ago #344931 by Tamm
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Yes, absolutely. Without even considering gender, friends are people who are attracted to one another and usually have something to share. It is more than just feeling comfortable around the other person.

but yeah, The friend zone is very real and very dangerous sometimes.

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10 years 10 months ago #344935 by Rarara
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There is no concept or expression like that in German. I personally find it stupid.

When people get to know each other, they might like each other. This could happen between male and female or same sex straight people or gay people... They could become friends. If they are attracted to each other they might be more than friends. Or let's call it something other than platonic friends. MIGHT! Doesn't always happen for noumerous reasons.

If the attraction isn't mutual, I don't see why friendship wouldn't be an option. Because if you like someone as a person, you don't stop liking them, just because they don't want to have sex with you. Oh wait, some guys are like that. That's wounded pride.


I think the basis of every good relationship is liking someone enough so you could be friends.

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10 years 10 months ago #344938 by support
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Cuddle Bitches = "friend zone"
cuddle bitch(n) - "a guy who never gets to sleep with a girl but gets to have intimate moments with her like cuddling, spooning, or otherwise being affectionate. Usually this will occur in private. She probably considers him a really sweet guy, which is the kiss of death.

First off, cuddle bitches are bad, bad things to be. Maybe the worst thing to be. I mean, being an Intellectual Whore is bad, but being an Intellectual Whore who has to endure blue-balls is bordering on criminal.

As to how it fits into the framework of the ladder.

Basically this is just a guy who has a very high position on the friends ladder. So far up the friends ladder that he gets the dubious honor of getting to provide all the intimacy that a girl is missing when she's off fucking guys who basically don't care about her like outlaw bikers and band members. So he gets to be the proxy father/confessor/friend/teddy bear for her, depending on what she is missing at the time. Perhaps the only consolation of this is a ladder jump to the real ladder seems statistically a little more likely to succeed. Of course, when one is that high up the fall is dreadful indeed...

How do we know this? Well, if a woman had a nice loving boyfriend then he would be doing all the cuddling and whatnot and likely wouldn't stand for a woman maintaining a stable of cuddle bitches. Unless he's completelty pussified, in which case she's likely fucking some other people anyway.

For guys unacquainted with Ladder Theory, it is even worse. The cuddle bitch often thinks he is on the good ladder as opposed to the real ladder. So he gets all excited about his position instead of realizing he is being completely used. So this poor tool is really setting himself up for a fall at that point.

Note: This does not apply if cuddling under the influence of mushrooms, for the express purposes of avoiding hypothermia, or if the woman is a whore that you've recently paid for sex. Cuddling is perfectly acceptable and probably non-sexual in these circumstances."

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10 years 10 months ago #344950 by haz
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Yes, but it's not impossible to escape the friend zone.

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10 years 10 months ago #344953 by rads1
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There are no friendzones for gorillas.

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