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Why do women want to talk to me on Skype but when I say I don't have Skype they stop talking to me?

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318870 by thadeusz
This question is probably dating site specific because I never came accross it. I admit I don't have any experiences on dating sites. Hey-Ai and facebook are the closest I have ever come to a dating site.

Recently several girls on facebook and here asked me for my Skype. When I said I don't have one they stopped talking to me. Why can't they just text me like they did before? What is it about Skype that girls like so much?

My inexperience may evoke ridicule from some of you. This is a serious question though. Please, I expect serious answers.
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11 years 4 weeks ago #318872 by 6speed
Who knows half the shit women do? Just download it, bro.

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318874 by WooSpiritLover
I think they might want to simulate as close the experience of being there in person as possible maybe? Like want to hear your voice and see your face while chatting instead of just plain texting. This is just my guess though. You probably want to hear from the girls to give their opinions as they would know better.

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318875 by Gary

6speed wrote: Who knows half the shit women do? Just download it, bro.


:laugh:

Ask them over skype why they stop talking to you then! :P
well did you at least tell them that you are going to make a skype account or will try to make a skype account?

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11 years 4 weeks ago - 11 years 4 weeks ago #318876 by grazingbuffalo
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11 years 4 weeks ago #318877 by cody
the same happened for me for few times.why would i give my skype to someone i barely know? next time i shall ask him to my house. when i entered this site, i gave my skype to a guy. when we went on skyp,e the first thing that he showed me was his penis. so no, i don't think i will give them my skype anymore unless i know them well before. they want your skype so they can see if you're that sexy and cool asian guy they wanna date, it's all superficial, so don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you, there's smth wrong with them. go ahead and tell them: "i don't have skype but when i will have it maybe i will give it to you". this way you will see if they deserve talking to you. if they reject you after refusing them it means that they deserve nothing. or you can also write on your profile that you won't give them your skype unless you get to talk to them for a while.
good luck with that.

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318878 by LiliaC
Lollll

Yo, dude, I think it's because of their precautions. They probably want to make sure you really are a cute asian guy and not some freeky-deeky old dude pretending to be a cute asian guy. ^_^

Why do girls avoid texting? Well, once a dude has your phone number, crazy shit can happen. One of my sister's numbers once got put on 4chan because one of the dudes she was talking to got pissed at her and posted her number on there. :( The result: some of the freakiest voicemails ever. We had to change her phone number in the end, and obviously, it's inconvenient to have to update your job and your friends on your new phone number when all of that was preventable.

But shit, I wouldn't just straight up quit talking to you! At least exchange emails. That's a helluva lot faster than this site. :\

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318884 by bentobeatbox
Because Skype has video and voice chatting.

I always felt strange jumping into video chats right away, so I never expected any guys to do it.

They probably want to see what you really look like, since pictures are often times misleading.

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318902 by thadeusz

Gary wrote: well did you at least tell them that you are going to make a skype account or will try to make a skype account?

Not really.... no.

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11 years 4 weeks ago #318908 by Arduina
Of course. There are girls which want to check out if you were her perfect dorama prince.
But there are also girls which want to chat with you. Hey-Ai is so slow. So, Skype is faster than Hey-Ai.
Well.. but this doens't explain why they stop talking to you.
I guess.. they're shallow so it doens't matter if you were a good guy. If you haven't Skype and cam up, they can go to the next object.
Like ''He is cute/handsome - Chat - Skype ? - No ? - Next one pleaaase!''
Don't give it a second thought, you don't need those shallow girls. :)
If there is a girl which is really interested in you or want to be your friend (or more) .. she would still chat with you here. :)

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