So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

curmudgeon wrote:

MelBeans wrote: Someone to share the mundane things in life.
Honesty.

Like food. S'all about the food.

Yep yep

My ideal man is who loves my food and want and be with me

I will never know my ideal woman before meeting her in my life, because she is most unique one. To me, it is not that she fits the definition of an ideal woman that she becomes the right one; it is that she is the right one that show me the definition of an ideal woman.

very important

My ideal woman is the nice, sweet woman.

The more interesting question is, how important is the guy's physical appearance to girls?

Eyes. Eyes. Eyes. i couldn't stress this enough. haha

Country girls are great as well. Not much of a hassle like in the cities.

Nick D1980 wrote: Have you been with any women lately that wanted a Brad Pitt in you
or was making billion dollars while looking like Brad Pitt? Or someother pretty boy?

Somehow Bill Gates one of the richest man in the world (total nerd/geek/loser in high school)
managed to get married to Melinda Gates. Okay than again she was a nerd herself. Damn
no good examples are coming to my mind.

You're making me feel bad man, I don't feel comfortable in my own skin again.

They usually don't say explicitly that they want a Brad Pitt, but I've had one or two say directly, "I'm just not physically attracted to you." Even all the income in the world can't compensate for that defect. And then you can observe the type of guys they do end up with.

I have that effect on people. Don't worry. Just don't anger the marker.

To me, honesty is the most important factor in a relationship. As for ideal girlfriend, i am not sure how to exactly define that, as ppl are nice and interesting (or not lol) in various ways. It's not like going to Subway, where i can customize my own sandwich

This came into my mind when I had been with a few ex-girlfriends and my current girlfriend, and even my friends, I found that their families always divorced and get married with others and then, they divorced again. I mean it's kinda weird for me, if you love the person and get married and then, u got kids and why you still want to divorce?! And it's not just only one or two of my friends or ex gfs who faced this, but it is like a very common thing for them. I got quite a number of friends and ex gfs who came from divorced families and broken homes.

I really hope that the Caucasian, Hispanic, African and all Non-Asian girls on this site are not like them, and this makes me worry that if my gf is like that. I know she comes from a broken home and divorced families who her parents broke up and married with another and then, married another again. I have faith in her that she won't be like them.

So what's your opinion about Westerners can't be loyal?