So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

This isn't simply just a problem in the western society. It's quiet common in the east too. My parents spilit when I was 6 and my dad got remarried within 6 months after the divorce. LOL what does that tell ya

A Chinese guy who worked at a Japanese restaurant told me once that when he returned to China for a visit, he found that there was rampant cheating going on there. I heard it's bad in Japan too.

Wow! Who ever said that is not nice.

@JKim204:

Ic, I don't know that Asian society has that much as well. But based on my experiences and friends, mostly of them are Westerners, so I only thought this problem mostly exist in Western world. Thanks for telling me that and sorry about your family, hope you're not mad when you read this topic. Sorry bro.

Ideal woman...mmmm lets see, A person who can make me laugh and i can talk to for hours without being bored. A girl who makes me blush and makes me say in my head.."this feels right"

“I think technically ‘The Girl Of My Dreams’ would probably have like a really bodacious rack, you know, maybe different hair, she’d probably be a little more into sports"

Fredt428 wrote: @JKim204:

Ic, I don't know that Asian society has that much as well. But based on my experiences and friends, mostly of them are Westerners, so I only thought this problem mostly exist in Western world. Thanks for telling me that and sorry about your family, hope you're not mad when you read this topic. Sorry bro.

It's all good bro haha anyways yea but the reason why the East is becoming more like that is because of the influence of the West.

Id say overall countries that lose their values to modernization and "now" and more marketing to "my way" is "normal" is what allows people to dismiss their bad actions....no responsibility or guilt if you normalize something. But i dont care what is "now okay "...though i have less "friends" my age because of it...i was a stubborn kid when others pressured me.....but i do think tbe west is more open and vulgar about their habits on a general level. Others perhaps hide it more.....not to mention north america itself has little history or tradition..we are extended off europe and some parts of n.a can be arrogant about being unattached to the queen. Thats about all I know or collect...

Well, I don't want to point the finger at who, but why the society has become like this be it Westerners or Asians, why they wanna divorced when they have lovely partner and kids. This thing I don't understand, if you are not sure with your love or don't love someone that much, then they should not proceed to marry and have the kids. The kids are the victims for their selfish thoughts and I can't stand that.

Some or many may marry based on their honeymoon period...or never bothered to plan ahead. Cheating on ur marriage is a huge issue that also does it...and financials. We say we dony carr how poor a bou is but...when they got a big hpuse and a new car loan it goes the other way....and casual dating plus more career choices make ppl flaky about commitment. Asto say just"having fun" can turn tbat mentality into otherpartsof life. Dont mimd my miserable phone texting grammar.