So what is it that attracts you to the opposite sex?

^ like you said about dream man/woman, I don't think everyone is going to get their perfect mate.

Most women don't care about a man's physical appearence.
As for us guys, we want them just right to our imagination.

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Marat_ilim wrote: alot of gorgeous men there..

hahaha i know dutch girls are crazy for indonesians. my plane to bali island was at least one half full of dutch girls.

Not only Dutch, all of European girls crazy for Southeast Asians coz of heaven sunshine, also those guys with healthy skin colour..LOL

heh i don´t care if the guy is a "pale or darker" asian lol..

Southeast Area has got too many fabolous sightseeings such as Punket Island, Bali Island, Java, and the aniaml safari which were attractive to the whole world, so that brings a lot of non Asian girls for a visit. Some of them will extended their stay in Southeast Asia, so that will provide a lot choices for local guys dating with non-asian girls..

PS:I have seen more white Female/ Asian Male rather than East Asia, such as China, Hongkong, or Taiwan..

I'm Filipino and I know a lot of Filipino guys who are married to white girls.

Nick D1980 wrote: ^ like you said about dream man/woman, I don't think everyone is going to get their perfect mate.

Most women don't care about a man's physical appearence.
As for us guys, we want them just right to our imagination.

Lol... yeah right. Maybe that was true 100 years ago. Today's women are just as demanding, self-righteous, and superficial as men ever were. In the past, they may have cared about things like character, ambition, and income but now it's all about looks looks looks.

MagicMarker wrote:

Nick D1980 wrote: ^ like you said about dream man/woman, I don't think everyone is going to get their perfect mate.

Most women don't care about a man's physical appearence.
As for us guys, we want them just right to our imagination.

Lol... yeah right. Maybe that was true 100 years ago. Today's women are just as demanding, self-righteous, and superficial as men ever were. In the past, they may have cared about things like character, ambition, and income but now it's all about looks looks looks.

Have you been with any women lately that wanted a Brad Pitt in you
or was making billion dollars while looking like Brad Pitt? Or someother pretty boy?

Somehow Bill Gates one of the richest man in the world (total nerd/geek/loser in high school)
managed to get married to Melinda Gates. Okay than again she was a nerd herself. Damn
no good examples are coming to my mind.

You're making me feel bad man, I don't feel comfortable in my own skin again.

I think that for a lot of people, it's looks + everything else on their dream sheet. So, in a way... it's similar to guys and our own physical requirements with the added layer of specifics such as height, ethnicity, status, or potential earnings. Mixed in there is the fact that we all want to be loved for who we are, but maybe to varying degrees based on the individual and their own values.

I don't know if it has been said before, but people from higher cost-of-living areas usually focus on the practical variable of $$$. Maybe to a fault. It varies, of course... but they're a product of the environment and both males and females have either acknowledged it to some degree, or have given in and accepted it. Similar to how some girls in California like certain types of guys.

When in Rome...

Someone to share the mundane things in life.
Honesty.

MelBeans wrote: Someone to share the mundane things in life.
Honesty.

Like food. S'all about the food.