Do you believe Men and Women can be just friends???

Oh, yes for sure...
But...

By the way this is the older thread to that one :
www.hey-ai.com/forum...-friends#515176

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Please merge them. Thanks.

Scoratees wrote: There has been a lot of sad story on here. Many people were genuinely in love.... Hence I would say you need to be clear about many things before pursuing a relationship on here. There are many hidden traps within an Asian, hence you cannot just rely on blindfaith and love alone. You need to ask many questions and realising what kind of person he is.

I feel the biggest threats to being with an asian is
1) the family. They are connected in all sorts of ways and the thought of being approved of ones parents... Well, that scares the shit out of me lol. For most White females, the parents are like 'as long as you are happy'. And that's it.
2) cooking. It seems to be a major thing in asian men's lives. I dont cook unless i have to. I dont see any asian patent approving me to date their son.

This is why i need the bananas. The White washed ones lol
Also, not interested in flings.. I want a guy i can grow old with o. O

Cihx wrote:

Scoratees wrote: There has been a lot of sad story on here. Many people were genuinely in love.... Hence I would say you need to be clear about many things before pursuing a relationship on here. There are many hidden traps within an Asian, hence you cannot just rely on blindfaith and love alone. You need to ask many questions and realising what kind of person he is.

I feel the biggest threats to being with an asian is
1) the family. They are connected in all sorts of ways and the thought of being approved of ones parents... Well, that scares the shit out of me lol. For most White females, the parents are like 'as long as you are happy'. And that's it.
2) cooking. It seems to be a major thing in asian men's lives. I dont cook unless i have to. I dont see any asian patent approving me to date their son.

This is why i need the bananas. The White washed ones lol
Also, not interested in flings.. I want a guy i can grow old with o. O

So what you are saying is that you have no love or respect for Asian men, but just want some Asian looking package but is twisted on the inside.

So in fact you don't want a relationship based on equality but entitlement and self fun.

On another hand, what you say is true about the parents. This is something I had to find out the hard way after getting into a relationship with someone on here, in the end I failed her because for true Asians the parents that gave person to us and raised us are more important. That's just how it is because we are Asian not white or post colonial subjects.

Ysayle wrote: yes! why? cause no one said they cant?
It is not forbidden or anything.
if friendship between men and women would not exist hey ai would have alot of couples right now lol

It means a lot people got friendzoned.

Which confirms that no men and women can't just be friends, because one will be secretly hoping to get close.

ariasnark wrote: Yes, definitely I have a very good guy friend ^^

Lmao... You 15 shawty.. Of course you say dis...

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Spend ones time wisely.
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Scoratees wrote:

Cihx wrote:

Scoratees wrote: There has been a lot of sad story on here. Many people were genuinely in love.... Hence I would say you need to be clear about many things before pursuing a relationship on here. There are many hidden traps within an Asian, hence you cannot just rely on blindfaith and love alone. You need to ask many questions and realising what kind of person he is.

I feel the biggest threats to being with an asian is
1) the family. They are connected in all sorts of ways and the thought of being approved of ones parents... Well, that scares the shit out of me lol. For most White females, the parents are like 'as long as you are happy'. And that's it.
2) cooking. It seems to be a major thing in asian men's lives. I dont cook unless i have to. I dont see any asian patent approving me to date their son.

This is why i need the bananas. The White washed ones lol
Also, not interested in flings.. I want a guy i can grow old with o. O

So what you are saying is that you have no love or respect for Asian men, but just want some Asian looking package but is twisted on the inside.

So in fact you don't want a relationship based on equality but entitlement and self fun.

On another hand, what you say is true about the parents. This is something I had to find out the hard way after getting into a relationship with someone on here, in the end I failed her because for true Asians the parents that gave person to us and raised us are more important. That's just how it is because we are Asian not white or post colonial subjects.

say what? How did you Come to that conclusion? Bananas arent twisted. That's your words.
I am not respecting an asian man because i find the whole tight family thing a bit much? Dude, that's a personal preferences. Got nothing to do with disrespect. But sure, while i am on the topic, No, i dont want an asian man Because of his culture. But I dont disrespect it. It's Just not the reason WHY I like asians.

Cihx wrote:

Scoratees wrote:

Cihx wrote:

Scoratees wrote: There has been a lot of sad story on here. Many people were genuinely in love.... Hence I would say you need to be clear about many things before pursuing a relationship on here. There are many hidden traps within an Asian, hence you cannot just rely on blindfaith and love alone. You need to ask many questions and realising what kind of person he is.

I feel the biggest threats to being with an asian is
1) the family. They are connected in all sorts of ways and the thought of being approved of ones parents... Well, that scares the shit out of me lol. For most White females, the parents are like 'as long as you are happy'. And that's it.
2) cooking. It seems to be a major thing in asian men's lives. I dont cook unless i have to. I dont see any asian patent approving me to date their son.

This is why i need the bananas. The White washed ones lol
Also, not interested in flings.. I want a guy i can grow old with o. O

So what you are saying is that you have no love or respect for Asian men, but just want some Asian looking package but is twisted on the inside.

So in fact you don't want a relationship based on equality but entitlement and self fun.

On another hand, what you say is true about the parents. This is something I had to find out the hard way after getting into a relationship with someone on here, in the end I failed her because for true Asians the parents that gave person to us and raised us are more important. That's just how it is because we are Asian not white or post colonial subjects.

say what? How did you Come to that conclusion? Bananas arent twisted. That's your words.
I am not respecting an asian man because i find the whole tight family thing a bit much? Dude, that's a personal preferences. Got nothing to do with disrespect. But sure, while i am on the topic, No, i dont want an asian man Because of his culture. But I dont disrespect it. It's Just not the reason WHY I like asians.

No I get you now gurl, it's more of a physical thing isn't it?

I think so:-) my best brother and friend From another mother is a guy and I’d leave anyone before I ever stopped talking to him:-)