Is marriage important to you?

Not for now i guess....
Tho idk if this thread is about this topic anymore...

Tamm wrote:

Rainman wrote:

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote:

Ansuca wrote: My parents have been together since they were 18 years old, they got married at 21 and now they are 70. They went through some problems, but you can still see their love when you look at them.
I started dating my ex when I was 25, we were together for 15 years, we lived together for 9 years, we never married. Someone may say that we broke up because cohabitation is not serious, that's why my parents are still together and I broke up with my ex.
It's not like that.
I broke up because he cheated on me. It doesn't matter if you're married or not ... the rules are the same. And if you think that a married woman or man is more serious about their relationship (just because he/she is married), I can say that I used to go out at night with the husbands of my friends (they have children ... etc.) and sometimes I am grateful that I was not married.

You lack maturity which is why you attacked me on another thread. You act as if you crap doesn't stink. My ex girlfriend told me she almost cheated on me and I didn't care if she did or not because we had issues. I don't remember neither of us telling us each other it was forever. You simply making assumptions I never heard anyone in a relationship promise each other forever. Marriage on the other hand there is a promise until death. I have always been upfront with people.

Excuse me? when did i attack you? Sorry... who are you? I just gave my opinion about marriage and my experencie.
Am i inmature? Do you know me? Do you know what i did or went through in my 15 years of relationship? My relationship was longer that a lot of marriages, boy. Ohhh but "marriage is a promise until death", yes.. in front a person you barely know and a "God".... "And they lived happily and ate partridges"..... and I'm the inmature (sigh).

First, i don't believe in God

Second, if you go to live with your bf/gf is because he/she is more than that. He/she is your partner in life, the person you want to see everyday in home and sleep with. The person who cares about you and you care about him/her.... The person you love. That's more important than any contract.

And third and last, if you think i attacked you.... i didn't even know you exist until now.

PD. Sorry if my english is not good... but if you can talk spanish I can explain MUCH BETTER.

This what you wrote on another thread:

"I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?"

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Well then you were never committed to him if you broke up with him. I met a woman online that was cheated on. She was married and angry but she changed her mind because I helped her cool down and see if the problem could be fixed. All of a sudden language is an issue? Yeah right.

You hanged around with your husband's friends and you were happy with your partner? Maybe he cheated on you because he thought you cheated on him? I am only speculating but why would a woman hang around with men? I never heard of this before. I don't need to know you but you have an issue that's for sure otherwise you wouldn't have posted what you did. Don't lie to me I am old enough to know better. Funny you mention about the pic a man with a bra, which is the pic i uploaded onto my profile. You are telling me you never knew I existed? Yeah right lady. lol

You never made a promise did you? You are making assumptions. You do not believe in god then you shouldn't expect any man to be faithful, it doesn't matter if you live with the man or not. People do not cheat for no reason, both male and female.

You have been brain washed into not believing in god. With no god there is no stable relationship. Look at the black community where around 80% of children born out of wedlock. The black community is falling apart because there is no husband in the home.

It's funny you think you know me? FYI I have asthma I can not even wear a mask for long let alone my underwear on my head. lol
So you were perfect for those 15 years? Really?
I know a guy that is divorced and he is angry he was cheated on and his ex left him for the guy and collected child support.
Guess what as time went on he showed his true colors. No accountability, everything was her fault and she was the bad one. He blamed his ex, instead of taking accountability. She likely left him because he is a weak man. He lied, attacked others who helped him and even support violence against women because he thought all women are feminists. I wasn't born yesterday lady. For most of my life I kept my mouth shut and observed and listen to people.

I have helped women with relationship problems without knowing their relationship history. One woman tried to get her boyfriend to get a job but he wouldn't. She could have left him but she wanted to fix the problem. I taught her how to communicate to him so he would get a job. Two weeks later he was hired and she was happy and offered to pay a lot of money to me but I refused because I only spent 20 minutes teaching her.

I think you need to calm down Rain and stop being so sensitive. I saw the thread and no where she mentioned you.

Second. That picture in your profile is not even you so, If you are mature enough how you said, pls next time dont take comments that dont mention you as personal and pls, respect others to receive respect.
If you are old enough you know how it works.

Maybe she should be respectful. I am a calm but I have an issue implying I'm a cheater. I have a hard sense of humor but it's not the joke. She did mention me just not by name. I get she has an issue with cheaters but that has nothing to do with me.

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote: This what you wrote on another thread:

"I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?" I NEVER wrote that

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Well then you were never committed to him if you broke up with him.I broke with him because he was a cheater. Weren't I committed?? I never thought about cheat on him cause I loved him that's why i was ONLY with him.That's why i NEVER was or thought about other guy
I met a woman online that was cheated on. She was married and angry but she changed her mind because I helped her cool down and see if the problem could be fixed.So the problem in that marriage was she was angry?? Why didn't you talk with the husband? He was who broke the marriage votes! The problem was HER HUSBAND. All of a sudden language is an issue? Yeah right.

You hanged around with your husband's friends and you were happy with your partner? Maybe he cheated on you because he thought you cheated on him?We are in the 21st century, did you notice?Yes, i hang out with guys cause they are MY FRIENDS I am only speculating but why would a woman hang around with men? I never heard of this before. Because they are my friends as their wives are. You never saw that? Ok, maybe you need go out a bit more , being in a cave is not good.
I don't need to know you but you have an issue that's for sure otherwise you wouldn't have posted what you did.I posted that because it was a JOKE. I only read "underware on his head" and i remembered that meme. But i can see humor sense is not your strong point... -.-
Don't lie to me I am old enough to know better. Funny you mention about the pic a man with a bra, which is the pic i uploaded onto my profile. You are telling me you never knew I existed? Yeah right lady. lol Seriously... I didn't think about your profile pic, like i said I didn't notice you. It was ONLY a FUNNY MEME. Don't be so sensible.... or change that fake pic instead and no more problem

You never made a promise did you? You are making assumptions. You do not believe in god then you shouldn't expect any man to be faithful, it doesn't matter if you live with the man or not.If you believe in God, good for you, but never tell me what i have to believe in or not. I respect any religion but i don't believe in religions. Btw.... I was educated in Catholicism, i had to read the old and new testament, and i had to go to church every sunday, I am baptized and I made my first communion so don't try to give me religious lessons.The difference between you and me is I can think for myself. People do not cheat for no reason, both male and female.So you are saying if you believe in God but your wife or gf don't do it, you can cheat on her?? Sorry... but that's just BS

You have been brain washed into not believing in god. With no god there is no stable relationship. Look at the black community where around 80% of children born out of wedlock. The black community is falling apart because there is no husband in the home.Maybe the problem is there are still so many male chauvinist who are hidden behind religion. If that religion says woman must serve the man, just have children for him, forget or forgive if he's a cheater and say "YES" to everything he says... sorry but then i never WILL believe in that. That's not a stable relationship... that's SERVITUDE.


It's funny you think you know me? FYI I have asthma I can not even wear a mask for long let alone my underwear on my head. lol
So you were perfect for those 15 years? Really?Nobody is perfect and i'm sure he can say our relationship wasn't good at the end, and he's right. But i NEVER cheated on him.

Only one advice: Use glasses when you are gonna reply in the forum.

Have a good day and blessings...

Rainman wrote:

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote: This what you wrote on another thread:

"I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?" I NEVER wrote that

www.hey-ai.com/forum...hosted?start=30


Well then you were never committed to him if you broke up with him.I broke with him because he was a cheater. Weren't I committed?? I never thought about cheat on him cause I loved him that's why i was ONLY with him.That's why i NEVER was or thought about other guy
I met a woman online that was cheated on. She was married and angry but she changed her mind because I helped her cool down and see if the problem could be fixed.So the problem in that marriage was she was angry?? Why didn't you talk with the husband? He was who broke the marriage votes! The problem was HER HUSBAND. All of a sudden language is an issue? Yeah right.

You hanged around with your husband's friends and you were happy with your partner? Maybe he cheated on you because he thought you cheated on him?We are in the 21st century, did you notice?Yes, i hang out with guys cause they are MY FRIENDS I am only speculating but why would a woman hang around with men? I never heard of this before. Because they are my friends as their wives are. You never saw that? Ok, maybe you need go out a bit more , being in a cave is not good.
I don't need to know you but you have an issue that's for sure otherwise you wouldn't have posted what you did.I posted that because it was a JOKE. I only read "underware on his head" and i remembered that meme. But i can see humor sense is not your strong point... -.-
Don't lie to me I am old enough to know better. Funny you mention about the pic a man with a bra, which is the pic i uploaded onto my profile. You are telling me you never knew I existed? Yeah right lady. lol Seriously... I didn't think about your profile pic, like i said I didn't notice you. It was ONLY a FUNNY MEME. Don't be so sensible.... or change that fake pic instead and no more problem

You never made a promise did you? You are making assumptions. You do not believe in god then you shouldn't expect any man to be faithful, it doesn't matter if you live with the man or not.If you believe in God, good for you, but never tell me what i have to believe in or not. I respect any religion but i don't believe in religions. Btw.... I was educated in Catholicism, i had to read the old and new testament, and i had to go to church every sunday, I am baptized and I made my first communion so don't try to give me religious lessons.The difference between you and me is I can think for myself. People do not cheat for no reason, both male and female.So you are saying if you believe in God but your wife or gf don't do it, you can cheat on her?? Sorry... but that's just BS

You have been brain washed into not believing in god. With no god there is no stable relationship. Look at the black community where around 80% of children born out of wedlock. The black community is falling apart because there is no husband in the home.Maybe the problem is there are still so many male chauvinist who are hidden behind religion. If that religion says woman must serve the man, just have children for him, forget or forgive if he's a cheater and say "YES" to everything he says... sorry but then i never WILL believe in that. That's not a stable relationship... that's SERVITUDE.


It's funny you think you know me? FYI I have asthma I can not even wear a mask for long let alone my underwear on my head. lol
So you were perfect for those 15 years? Really?Nobody is perfect and i'm sure he can say our relationship wasn't good at the end, and he's right. But i NEVER cheated on him.

Only one advice: Use glasses when you are gonna reply in the forum.

Have a good day and blessings...

Now you insult me. My father never had female friends. My step mother never had male friends. If you don't have friends of the opposite sex the chances of cheating are slim. I worked with the public, I have seen so called friends fall in love and cheat on their partner.

If you are going to joke I'm a cheater yes I have a problem with that it was a cartoon. You denying that doesn't make it going away. You are immature there is a different of joking and have a problem with men because your ex cheated on you. I do not need glasses. First it's language issue than you twist to glasses. Keep on lying lol Oh about other people mind their own business? Yeah right you're the good one. lol You come here because your own race of men won't deal with you. That goes with most women on here too. I know this because white men are telling me this. White women go to poor countries, the women who are willing to pay for whatever. Asian women win at dating because they are honest. They don't blame their ex for cheating or whatever. Asian women want to get married so white men marry them. Asian women has the lowest divorce rate in USA compared to white, Hispanic and black women.

Rainman wrote: Now you insult me. My father never had female friends. My step mother never had male friends. If you don't have friends of the opposite sex the chances of cheating are slim. If you are going to joke I'm a cheater yes I have a problem with that and you wrote it. You denying that doesn't make it going away. You are immature there is a different of joking and have a problem with men because your ex cheated on you. I do not need glasses. Keep on lying lol Oh about other people mind their own business?

Your logic is so brilliant.... but it could be better.. Didn't you ever think about if you don't have friends at all then you'll can be faithful forever?? I should have proposed it to my ex

Oh God... you got me.... yes.. I have a LOT of problems with men cause of my ex.... I should become into a nun cause he cheated on me and all men are soo sooo BAD! Oh! but i can't... i'm a sinner and a freethinker woman.... dammit!

Ok, enough of this.
I already told you i wasn't who wrote that.
I'm not going to spend a single neuronal impulse answering you again.
I hope you have a good life.
Ciao.

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote:

Ansuca wrote: My parents have been together since they were 18 years old, they got married at 21 and now they are 70. They went through some problems, but you can still see their love when you look at them.
I started dating my ex when I was 25, we were together for 15 years, we lived together for 9 years, we never married. Someone may say that we broke up because cohabitation is not serious, that's why my parents are still together and I broke up with my ex.
It's not like that.
I broke up because he cheated on me. It doesn't matter if you're married or not ... the rules are the same. And if you think that a married woman or man is more serious about their relationship (just because he/she is married), I can say that I used to go out at night with the husbands of my friends (they have children ... etc.) and sometimes I am grateful that I was not married.

You lack maturity which is why you attacked me on another thread. You act as if you crap doesn't stink. My ex girlfriend told me she almost cheated on me and I didn't care if she did or not because we had issues. I don't remember neither of us telling us each other it was forever. You simply making assumptions I never heard anyone in a relationship promise each other forever. Marriage on the other hand there is a promise until death. I have always been upfront with people.

Excuse me? when did i attack you? Sorry... who are you? I just gave my opinion about marriage and my experencie.
Am i inmature? Do you know me? Do you know what i did or went through in my 15 years of relationship? My relationship was longer that a lot of marriages, boy. Ohhh but "marriage is a promise until death", yes.. in front a person you barely know and a "God".... "And they lived happily and ate partridges"..... and I'm the inmature (sigh).

First, i don't believe in God

Second, if you go to live with your bf/gf is because he/she is more than that. He/she is your partner in life, the person you want to see everyday in home and sleep with. The person who cares about you and you care about him/her.... The person you love. That's more important than any contract.

And third and last, if you think i attacked you.... i didn't even know you exist until now.

PD. Sorry if my english is not good... but if you can talk spanish I can explain MUCH BETTER.

Your English is great!

What does it mean to be in a relationship?

To want to be with someone. To want to see them. To want to spend your waking free moments with them. To tend and care for them. When they feel sad, you feel their sadness. When they're happy, you're just as elated for them, for the two of you. And to have them feel the same, to think the same of you, at no force.

When a couple spends ALL of their time together, it can be sickening. Seeing the other person on a daily basis, doesn't that get suffocating? Does that make the other partner too needy? But there is a difference.

You can be involved with someone and see them on a full-time basis, as long as you don't EXPECT to spend every single minute with them, that you allow both yourselves time out with friends, family, work, etc. It's the comfort in returning to one another at the end of the day, in the safety of each other's arms, to know that when the world is in shits, there is someone by your side to pull you through - that makes the world go round and round.

Because as adults, we're looking for a lifelong partner. To enter a marriage. And that means seeing the other person every single day, for the rest of your life. So finding someone you can tolerate, through the good and more so, the bad.... I truly believe that marriage is finding that partner in which you are willing to continuously work on your relationship with.

So if you ain't ready for that, then maybe a relationship isn't your cup of tea.

Yea, get married or you'll go blind.

satchmo-75 wrote: What does it mean to be in a relationship?

To want to be with someone. To want to see them. To want to spend your waking free moments with them. To tend and care for them. When they feel sad, you feel their sadness. When they're happy, you're just as elated for them, for the two of you. And to have them feel the same, to think the same of you, at no force.

When a couple spends ALL of their time together, it can be sickening. Seeing the other person on a daily basis, doesn't that get suffocating? Does that make the other partner too needy? But there is a difference.

You can be involved with someone and see them on a full-time basis, as long as you don't EXPECT to spend every single minute with them, that you allow both yourselves time out with friends, family, work, etc. It's the comfort in returning to one another at the end of the day, in the safety of each other's arms, to know that when the world is in shits, there is someone by your side to pull you through - that makes the world go round and round.

Because as adults, we're looking for a lifelong partner. To enter a marriage. And that means seeing the other person every single day, for the rest of your life. So finding someone you can tolerate, through the good and more so, the bad.... I truly believe that marriage is finding that partner in which you are willing to continuously work on your relationship with.

So if you ain't ready for that, then maybe a relationship isn't your cup of tea.

The problem is that women aren't looking for life long partner. I went out with a divorce woman. She went back to her ex husband because I refuse to hold hands let alone kiss her. She was sleeping with a guy before i went out with her. All she wanted to do is sleep with me. She tried to pay for everything but i said I will pay because I didn't want her to complain.
There are some women who tried to go back to their ex when they can't find a man that want to seriously date.
There are pretend girlfriend, i was told by a woman who had women who used me for free stuff and money. Once the money ran out they were gone. There was a guy who had a girlfriend that lived with her but one day she took everything but the phone. He swore never to have a girlfriend. I never heard him say they made any kind of promise. Assuming people will do something is rather foolish.
I am accused being this and that. But I only brought it up because she accused of me knowing her. lol
Pretty funny she denies it. More than likely she had issues in the relationship and her partner tried to talk with her but she refuses to acknowledge the problem. I would start looking for someone else to deal with too. Women cheat on t heir partners because their abusive husband would physically hit them. Some do out of revenge and other who are appreciated her. The abusive husband can say well at least I didn't CHEAT! lol The problem is that you take you with you when go to another relationship.

Christian 41 wrote: Yea, get married or you'll go blind.

Not if you go no fap. lol


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