Is marriage important to you?

zen wrote:

San_Ichiban wrote:

Rainman wrote:

Rainman wrote:

Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote: This what you wrote on another thread:

"I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?" I NEVER wrote that

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Well then you were never committed to him if you broke up with him.I broke with him because he was a cheater. Weren't I committed?? I never thought about cheat on him cause I loved him that's why i was ONLY with him.That's why i NEVER was or thought about other guy
I met a woman online that was cheated on. She was married and angry but she changed her mind because I helped her cool down and see if the problem could be fixed.So the problem in that marriage was she was angry?? Why didn't you talk with the husband? He was who broke the marriage votes! The problem was HER HUSBAND. All of a sudden language is an issue? Yeah right.

You hanged around with your husband's friends and you were happy with your partner? Maybe he cheated on you because he thought you cheated on him?We are in the 21st century, did you notice?Yes, i hang out with guys cause they are MY FRIENDS I am only speculating but why would a woman hang around with men? I never heard of this before. Because they are my friends as their wives are. You never saw that? Ok, maybe you need go out a bit more , being in a cave is not good.
I don't need to know you but you have an issue that's for sure otherwise you wouldn't have posted what you did.I posted that because it was a JOKE. I only read "underware on his head" and i remembered that meme. But i can see humor sense is not your strong point... -.-
Don't lie to me I am old enough to know better. Funny you mention about the pic a man with a bra, which is the pic i uploaded onto my profile. You are telling me you never knew I existed? Yeah right lady. lol Seriously... I didn't think about your profile pic, like i said I didn't notice you. It was ONLY a FUNNY MEME. Don't be so sensible.... or change that fake pic instead and no more problem

You never made a promise did you? You are making assumptions. You do not believe in god then you shouldn't expect any man to be faithful, it doesn't matter if you live with the man or not.If you believe in God, good for you, but never tell me what i have to believe in or not. I respect any religion but i don't believe in religions. Btw.... I was educated in Catholicism, i had to read the old and new testament, and i had to go to church every sunday, I am baptized and I made my first communion so don't try to give me religious lessons.The difference between you and me is I can think for myself. People do not cheat for no reason, both male and female.So you are saying if you believe in God but your wife or gf don't do it, you can cheat on her?? Sorry... but that's just BS

You have been brain washed into not believing in god. With no god there is no stable relationship. Look at the black community where around 80% of children born out of wedlock. The black community is falling apart because there is no husband in the home.Maybe the problem is there are still so many male chauvinist who are hidden behind religion. If that religion says woman must serve the man, just have children for him, forget or forgive if he's a cheater and say "YES" to everything he says... sorry but then i never WILL believe in that. That's not a stable relationship... that's SERVITUDE.


It's funny you think you know me? FYI I have asthma I can not even wear a mask for long let alone my underwear on my head. lol
So you were perfect for those 15 years? Really?Nobody is perfect and i'm sure he can say our relationship wasn't good at the end, and he's right. But i NEVER cheated on him.

Only one advice: Use glasses when you are gonna reply in the forum.

Have a good day and blessings...

Let's see I had a stripper that came to my work and she was hitting on me. Her male friend was driving her around and paying for things. I don't know if she were in a relationship but she was hitting on me. So the whole idea men and women can be friends is rather stupid. Men are hoping for sexual access or relationship. If I was a jerk I could have slept with her while the male friend was hoping for whatever.

So what a person can work with a corporate for 15 years. That person can have a business relationship with the CEO but there is no guarantee because there is no agreement. Relationship are not promises so your ex never owed you anything. Hanging around cheating men and you don't see an issue with that? That says more about you than them. I would never hang around with a group of people like that.
My ex gf always stood her ground she didn't deny whatever she said. Maybe it is you who needs to wake up. I know what exactly is going on with women and men, I have known for over 20 years.


I'm done with this website. Tell your stupid manginas and white knights they are boring. I used to go to internet fights rooms so this is nothing. Have fun dumpster diving, people have been coming and leaving this for a decade or more. lol

rip real internet fight club room guy. i cri.

His spirit live among us.

Wow there is one.
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Ansuca wrote:

Rainman wrote: This what you wrote on another thread:

"I saw a guy wearing bra to get online, maybe it’s someone else. But what if the real person wear his underwear on his head ?" I NEVER wrote that

www.hey-ai.com/forum...hosted?start=30


Well then you were never committed to him if you broke up with him.I broke with him because he was a cheater. Weren't I committed?? I never thought about cheat on him cause I loved him that's why i was ONLY with him.That's why i NEVER was or thought about other guy
I met a woman online that was cheated on. She was married and angry but she changed her mind because I helped her cool down and see if the problem could be fixed.So the problem in that marriage was she was angry?? Why didn't you talk with the husband? He was who broke the marriage votes! The problem was HER HUSBAND. All of a sudden language is an issue? Yeah right.

You hanged around with your husband's friends and you were happy with your partner? Maybe he cheated on you because he thought you cheated on him?We are in the 21st century, did you notice?Yes, i hang out with guys cause they are MY FRIENDS I am only speculating but why would a woman hang around with men? I never heard of this before. Because they are my friends as their wives are. You never saw that? Ok, maybe you need go out a bit more , being in a cave is not good.
I don't need to know you but you have an issue that's for sure otherwise you wouldn't have posted what you did.I posted that because it was a JOKE. I only read "underware on his head" and i remembered that meme. But i can see humor sense is not your strong point... -.-
Don't lie to me I am old enough to know better. Funny you mention about the pic a man with a bra, which is the pic i uploaded onto my profile. You are telling me you never knew I existed? Yeah right lady. lol Seriously... I didn't think about your profile pic, like i said I didn't notice you. It was ONLY a FUNNY MEME. Don't be so sensible.... or change that fake pic instead and no more problem

You never made a promise did you? You are making assumptions. You do not believe in god then you shouldn't expect any man to be faithful, it doesn't matter if you live with the man or not.If you believe in God, good for you, but never tell me what i have to believe in or not. I respect any religion but i don't believe in religions. Btw.... I was educated in Catholicism, i had to read the old and new testament, and i had to go to church every sunday, I am baptized and I made my first communion so don't try to give me religious lessons.The difference between you and me is I can think for myself. People do not cheat for no reason, both male and female.So you are saying if you believe in God but your wife or gf don't do it, you can cheat on her?? Sorry... but that's just BS

You have been brain washed into not believing in god. With no god there is no stable relationship. Look at the black community where around 80% of children born out of wedlock. The black community is falling apart because there is no husband in the home.Maybe the problem is there are still so many male chauvinist who are hidden behind religion. If that religion says woman must serve the man, just have children for him, forget or forgive if he's a cheater and say "YES" to everything he says... sorry but then i never WILL believe in that. That's not a stable relationship... that's SERVITUDE.


It's funny you think you know me? FYI I have asthma I can not even wear a mask for long let alone my underwear on my head. lol
So you were perfect for those 15 years? Really?Nobody is perfect and i'm sure he can say our relationship wasn't good at the end, and he's right. But i NEVER cheated on him.

Only one advice: Use glasses when you are gonna reply in the forum.

Have a good day and blessings...

Well you should read this book. the manipulated man www.naturalthinker.n...pulated_man.pdf

This book shows it's women who benefited from the men. Thank god this book is popular, a lot of guys no longer want marriage or relationship.

I would have to say honesty is the biggest thing I keep open in a marriage. As long as we are open and honest with each other than we can handle whatever life through at us

Not sure about to marriage theres a point of my life that i dont even know what its hahaha.
Im old enough but talking about finding a man its difficult :/

No

I used to think it is and I still believe it is but with the way the world economy is going, idk about anything anymore

Wow there was a lot to unpack in this thread. What a ride lol~

As for me, years ago I used to think marriage was important (the institution not the ceremony.) The idea of finding someone and sharing everything with them (a name, a household, finances, etc) was something to strive for. I wanted to have someone to depend on and share experiences with. Someone to spend all of my time with.

I've seen people be together for 20 years and seem like they are in love and inseparable only to have someone cheat and then things turn into a nasty divorce. It's a bit demotivating and I'm sure there are people in the world who mean what they say and won't eventually cheat or change in the future... but there is no way to know for sure? And that uncertainty scares me...

Personally, I've worked hard for my career and my house. I enjoy my financial independence. So now I don't think marriage is so important. I would still like to find someone someday who compliments me as a partner but I don't feel like marriage is a necessity to show level of commitment.

No it’s not. You can do everything what marriage couples can do. And you can keep your stuff too if you get separated. If I feel I need to get married I have to make sure the other person is well.

I personally think actually loving the person is the most important thing. Marriage is just a piece of paper anyways. It seems a lot people just want it out of convenience or financial reasons though.

Good luck living together let alone getting married. This is only in Ontario Canada for now but I'm sure this will eventually be global. Cohabitation is a bad risk for men because women falsely claim domestic abuse and get the man arrest.


A wealthy businessman will have to pay more than $50,000 a month in spousal support for 10 years to a woman with whom he had a long-term romantic relationship even though they kept separate homes and had no children together, Ontario’s top court has ruled.

Under Ontario law, an unmarried couple are considered common-law spouses if they have cohabited – lived together in a conjugal relationship – continuously for at least three years. But that doesn’t necessarily mean living in the same home, the court found.

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